2024: Enough is enough

A million thoughts raced through my mind, as I realised that we are three days away from the end of 2024. This year seems to have gone by in a flash, and for a moment, I caught myself panicking because it seems I have not done much… 

What have I achieved? Why does it feel like precious time is running out and I’m not making the most of it? 

*Takes deep breath*

I decided to take a look at my calendar. Phew! While I have been procrastinating on updating this website, I was not the prodigal daughter who squandered time. In my single-minded quest to ‘live in the moment’, I have simply forgotten much as usual.   

This is a common problem among urban dwellers who have to cope with constant changes and uncertainty. As we focus on our goals, meticulously clearing obstacles along the way… it can be easy to overlook one’s capability to adapt to changes, which is actually a feat worth acknowledging.

Do you have this problem? Are you prone to self-doubt, or the impostor syndrome? Don’t be too tough on yourself. As Charles Darwin famously said, 

“It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change.” 

Sure, I could do more. I could be kinder to loved ones, lend a helping hand to more strangers, be more active in building my professional expertise and network, invested more in self-growth, etc. The list goes on. BUT it’s okay. 

Looking back at 2024, I’ve made conscious choices to be present for loved ones, travel mindfully, work (less but!) with like-minded organisations, and set up new home bases in Singapore and Shanghai. I’m grateful, and it is enough. 

If you are reading this, thank you. I’m sure you have done well enough too. Happy New Year ahead 🙂